THE MYTH OF EVERLASTING FRIENDSHIP

Since ages of human race development, friendships always have some stories to say, the stories of trust, faith and unbreakable bonds. Everyone knows how it has been like since years and decades. Friendship is like a coin, two faced. It can be everlasting at one side and can be transient and momentary on the other side. Our duty is just to toss the coin and the result is not our concern. The time has the answer to it.

Someone said to me “Not everyone is meant to be a permanent fixture in our life, or we would never experience the change that bring us to newer and even better experiences”. These people lead us to better opportunities. Not all the time friends remain friends. One needs to understand every phase of companionship. Many a time we come across people, become friends, create memories and forget and sometimes just end it inadvertently. All that is left behind is memory. The memories, those are meant to be cherished and prized. The parting of people should never lead to grudges or hard feelings against that person in your heart.

It is human nature, trust shifts from one person to the next. It’s normal you may like someone today but may be not tomorrow. The bottom line is that, every day the struggle to find friend at any place of our residence continues. On conclusion, we get one but there are times when things do not go well and we have a sudden desire to end up all. Later, a new exertion begins. We keep on striving harder and never lose hope.

I know, it can sound weird because friendship is considered eternal but wait, think and rewind. Is it so? Turn the pages of past, precisely there will be ample of friends who became like once upon a time kind of story. We all pass through too many of friends to reach that fewer best friends who are meant to stay for lifetime. The need of the situation is to decide, between the temporary and permanent people so that fewer expectations are kept and happiness dwells at our heart.

The more you rush the greater you fall in the pit of emotional turmoil. If you feel like, your efforts to maintain the bond further have reached saturation, then please leave it there itself. It’s tough to let go anyone easily, but you have to. Don’t coerce yourself to some sayings or quote you read somewhere. Fake care or dishonesty will only pull one towards guilt, lie and loneliness. Just admit the termination if your heart doesn’t permit it. Future is obscure to all, if things really didn’t fall in place, you will somehow be back with the one you left. It’s important to give a break if not pleased with the present. May be, this sounds selfish, but it is not; because the best was conferred at your end and not every time success lands your feet. You are just being sincere and importantly trying to stay happy.

There are different lessons to be learnt from all these instances of life:

Firstly, your happiness is mandatory in all conditions. 

Secondly, keep no regrets; they will always pull you back. 

Third , you can’t fasten up people to a string. If something is meant to go, it will go. All efforts will go in vain. The myth of everlasting association has to be faded. 

Fourth , few friends are made only to make us learn priceless life lessons.

I have made several tries since years to never let any friend go, but sadly they went and I admitted that this was the end of the chapter. We all have categorized friendship as shown in celluloid, but its real life. Happy ending is not an obvious factor. But yes new chapter is obvious to be appended which perhaps can bring serenity and contentment. So never stop exploring, move ahead and toss the coin dredging up the truth of departure. Just be gratified and appreciative to all who once stood by your side. Time never does wrong to anyone, surely it has something more deep hidden in itself.

Never lose hope and enthusiast towards life. Several narrations are still to be revealed, but you will have to wait for the right time. Let no one blemish the sparkle of your life. With your zest at zenith, just go on and discover the tales yet untold.